Brian’s Birthday Weekend

Brian was supposed to leave “next week” for the last six weeks… so he wasn’t going to be home for his birthday. I had anticipated meeting a friend at the Haleiwa arts festival on his birthday and I really wanted to go… so I convinced him to come along. The festival was huge and eventually I had to feed him shave ice to stave off grumpiness, but we made it!

I didn’t buy anything, still haven’t found anything that fits what I really want. I also didn’t take many pictures, but finally captured a peacock crossing the road and that’s really prime North Shore Hawaii right there.

The next day, we did manage a re-do dinner at Gaslamp (our first was nixed because Brian got COVID on our anniversary). Gaslamp is a “speakeasy” hidden in the back of a town pub. They text you a passcode before going in, it was relatively long so I read the text to the hostess, ha. The cocktails were AH-MAZING and so was my steak.

Sorry, I can’t easily figure out how to rotate this.

After an appetizer, two drinks a piece, meals, and dessert our bill came out to $400!! But for a combo anniversary/birthday dinner it was worth it. I begged Brian to allow me to do it while he’s gone (not that he has much of a say in the matter but it’s nice to make him think so. JKJK!) Truly we indulged and could’ve cut costs significantly.

This experience definitely isn’t for everyone, but I LOVED it.

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Ka’au Crater Hike

This is a hike with no victory story at the end, no grand climax, no “I pushed through and conquered”. It’s a very, very, difficult hike and I knew that going in, but I didn’t realize HOW taxing it would be. I’m going to open with a picture of the one, of many, technical challenges we faced along the way. We had to get through this jungle gym of a fallen tree.

This hike, when accomplished, has it all – waterfalls, views, and a hidden volcanic crater – by journeying in a loop. However, it’s also very difficult, and my goal this time was just to do an out and back to the first waterfall. Well, we got about 2.5 miles in, and I had tripped over myself more times than I could count (this is irregular for me, it was a combo of my defective spikes and PMSing). I didn’t want to keep chancing it. It felt like every 10ft there was some technical part, and we finally got to a spot where there was very little actual path, and I couldn’t do one more thing. I wish I took a picture, but essentially we follow this pipe up, and at one point that path that is well defined here, essentially narrows to next to nothing.

Some day I’ll go the opposite direction and hope I make it to the crater – I am ok with missing out on a couple waterfalls, but I really want to see the hidden crater.

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Maunawili Falls via Pali Highway Hairpin Lookout

Maunawili Falls is a waterfall that is so popular among tourists, one hiking access route was closed shortly after we arrived in Hawaii in order for trail restoration to occur. This leaves a couple other, much longer, options to get to the waterfall- the one we took was a 6.5 mile total hike. A couple friends had been eager to go on it, so I asked them to choose a date so we could plan to go together with KOSC. Well, they both ended up needing to bail due to life circumstances, and in fact only 3/14 registrants ended up committing. It’s a pretty typical problem with my hikes. Nonetheless, we trekked and had a great time!

The parking for it is on the “hairpin” turn on Pali highway- it is a really small parking lot and there were threats of both tickets and broken glass. When we arrived, there was a ton of broken glass on the ground. Thankfully, even though we were out on the hike for four hours, my car was safe and sound.

The trail starts pretty ominously with this non descript warning… these signs are around Hawaii due to unexploded bombs I believe. Strange they wouldn’t take care of it but here we are.

Essentially you start with hiking the inside of this mountain range and have some amazing peak a boo views in the beginning. Eventually, we take a left and head down into this lower forested area to get to the waterfall…about 2.75 miles in.

The trail is a mix of about everything, from board walk to rock to streams to lengthy mud puddles. So many natural flowers along the way.

I took a chance on a puddle and unfortunately I sunk right in. Some are pretty dense and you stay on top.

This is where we took a left to get to the falls.

We made our way down some stairs cautiously and found the stream, we’re getting close!

Finally, the falls!

The path was blocked by a fallen tree, so we definitely needed to walk up the stream. This part was tricky, and one of my boots ended up filled with water. Thankfully Kaylynn was there to push us all the way because I had about had it with the stream and slippery rocks. I would DEFINITELY take my water shoes next time and changed quickly. Would’ve made a world of difference for this last section.

Now we turn around and climb our way back out. It was helpful to have beautiful views along the way.

Thankful for these ladies to have joined me. I would do this hike again if I gave it some time to dry out. I will also confess that this was a stressful day – Brian left the morning of this hike. His boat was departing later that afternoon and I wanted to go home, shower, and make it to pearl to see. So I was eager to go quickly. I think I’d like to go back under better conditions, with better shoes, and at a slower pace.

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Mokoli’i Paddle Boarding and Hike

I am approximately a month behind in blogging… I’ve been in a funk but I think I am on the other side!

Brian, Jess, Raquel, and I took an adventure to Kualoa beach park to paddle to this tiny island called Mokoil’i! To tourists it’s more commonly known as Chinaman’s hat. It’s sits about a 15 min paddle board ride away from the shore. That’s Brian in this pic! Believe it or not I was on my paddle board cautiously with my phone out.

The views of Oahu from the island are simply stunning. This is only my phone camera because I didn’t want to risk it… I think I could bring it out in a waterproof bag though.

We started hiking up it and essentially got to this cliff face. I was too uncomfortable but the others carried on without me.

I sat on a little ledge. They made it to the top and got stunning 360 views… oh well. Brian said there was one stretch that pushed his comfort zone so… I am glad I stopped but it’s always a slight disappointment.

I really wanted a pic with two rando palm trees that successfully planted themselves on the island!

Originally, we were all going to paddle or kayak out there. I had heard that you should go during low tide… but I didn’t put much thought into why and I think it’s because most people try to walk the reef out (bad bad!!). It turns out it is actually not the best because it’s too low for something like a kayak. So Jess and Raquel swam out. Anyway, by the time we came back in it was deep enough to try the kayak out. Jess bought it and hadn’t used it yet! So we went for a quick test run beyond that barrier there.

It was a cool adventure- I’m not sure I’d do it again, but maybe! I am disappointed I didn’t get up to the top. 🙁

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Ehukai Pillbox Hike and North Shore Adventure

Brian and I had a whole Saturday with nothing to do which is quite the unusual event. After weighing our options we decided on an adventure to the North Shore. We started at Green World Coffee Farm which I’ve heard a lot of great things about but since I don’t really like coffee didn’t feel the need to check out. Brian loves coffee so we stopped. I got a iced mocha, a newly found coffee ish love of mine, and it was delicious. Brian got a blueberry latte for kicks and wasn’t a huge fan of blueberry. We also had a coconut turnover.

I would imagine they have tours or discussions normally as they had a coffee plant garden out back and a grinder inside but we didn’t experience that part.

Next stop was Laniakea to try to find turtles… and we didn’t see any (a miss for a second time…womp). Then to the Pillbox hike. It was a pretty steep ascent but very dry so it was easy. Overall I was unimpressed, not really a great view and the hike wasn’t very picturesque… but glad to knock another one off the list and gets some activity in.

Then we started our foodie tour… first stop a garlic shrimp truck. Giovanni’s is the “famous” one, however when we tried to go they were closed that day… so we ended up at Hono’s which is also highly rated. They are in a food truck plaza? I guess? You could pay $2 to park, it was pretty full by the time we got there and it was opened/closed as people left.

The options were garlic or spicy garlic… I asked how spicy it was and they said medium. Well, for the record, medium to them means get ready to cry… it was SO HOT. The flavor itself was delicious if you could get past the fire. Whereas Brian got the plain old garlic and I thought it was meh. Also, by the time we ordered it was so busy it was going to take 45minutes. There are some small stores nearby so we went and visited HE>I which is a Hawaiian based store who’s branding is centered around God is greater than I. I bought a sticker for my water bottle and an awesome shirt with mountains, water, and sun.

Stop two was a Mahuka Banana Bread. I bought banana bread and some cookies. I a little regret this stop-I didn’t realize these guys are the ones often at our local food markets and I ended up with too many desserts from the weekend. Oh well! On our way into the parking area, we had to wait for a peacock to cross the road… yup. A peacock.

Then, last foodie stop, was Ted’s bakery which is a famous pie bakery and reminds me of the Pie version of Mike’s pastries in Boston. I bought the Chocolate-Haupia cream pie, lilikoi cream pie, and chocolate chip macademia nut cookies. My favorite was the lilikoi cream pie.

I am very grateful Brian was willing to chauffeur me around to these places. We then meandered around the island back to home and relaxed the rest of the day, we earned it!

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Nutridge Estate Luau

One word for this luau – Kupanaha (Amazing!) I came across the Nutridge estate when I went to visit the Tantalus lookout. It’s kinda tucked in a corner of the park and it looked interesting so I googled it and turns out it’s an authentic Luau location. A little history – it was the first macadamia nut farm on Hawaii and also a sweet potato farm.

I did NOT take a lot of pictures. I was very intentional about living in the moment. I do regret not getting a better picture of the venue… this first picture is a great sense of the ambiance, though.

The reason that I LOVED this luau was because it was all about Hawaiian culture and history while keeping some of the modern fun elements. It was also very intimate – only 60 of us. We started with getting a lei, learning some Hawaiian words, and a Mai Tai. We learned about the history of the estate and the land. They brought us to a little amphitheater and we “helped” start cooking our food and watched some dancing. You can see the fire pit in the middle.

We saw the guys dance a bit and explain to us how to prep the food and that the Hawaiian version of a pressure cooker was a pit and the meat was covered with banana leaves. Honestly I forget what he was trying to show us here.

The land is just so abundant, this is a huge mango tree. They are big about not letting anything go to waste, so when they had to cut the branches they used the wood for the benches we were sitting on.

Conch shells were a way to announce the beginning of a ceremony. We moved to a new location to a deeper part of the woods for more dancing.

The men did a typical warrior dance, it was very intimidating! They did amazing.

We did also get some fire play. Always mesmerizing! This is actually originally from Tahiti or Samoa

They also had Hawaiian “games”. We only had time to play one which involved throwing a spear at a banana tree, but for the record I was much better at hitting the banana tree than Brian was (he will deny this).

I didn’t take any pictures of the food, but it was definitely your typical Hawaiian food and it was delicious (chicken, pork lau lau, sweet potato). We also had an amazing lilikoi cocktail.

This was a dream come true for me- it was so beautifully done, I learned a lot, had a ton of fun. We saw more dancing while we were eating. One downside was they are renovating the bathrooms so we had to use the ones at the park, a bit of a drive. A couple logistics, due to the nature of the setup, could’ve been improved, like I had a hard time seeing the dancers in a couple locations. We were also the last to get dinner. But really, I think that’s the cost of a small and intimate ceremony. The performers were all super nice and friendly and willing to talk to you in the downtime. I’m so glad I stumbled on this place. I guess I’d consider it a dark horse-I hadn’t heard of this before, usually it’s the big hotel luaus that I’ve heard about, but from what we heard from other couples they learned about it on the big travel websites. Superbly done. Would recommend.

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Paddling to Flat Island

Paddling is a sore subject with me… I bought my paddle board with great intentions, but getting it down to the ocean is difficult and finding calm waters is also difficult. This picture makes the water look calm, but in reality it was not easy to paddle. I bought a cart after much internet research, and it was a big fail. I’ve thought about investing in another… but it’s $130. If it works, it’s a useful buy and will help me use it more often… big if. Still contemplating it. For this excursion, we carried them using shoulder straps and it was ok but a huge effort for what it was worth.

ANYWAY. We did manage to paddle all the way to flat island. That first picture will give you some perspective- Lanikai is the pale beach at the end of the land point, and also my beloved mokes. It only took about 15 minutes. The water is super clear and it is outlined by a rocky perimeter which made it hard to explore but we walked a little bit.

Glad I’m conquering all sorts of fears and tackling these fun activities!

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Pink Pillbox aka Pu’u O Hulu Trail aka Ma’ili Pillbox

Brian forgot his lunch I so lovingly packed him the night before… so I was trying to find a reason to head that way after work (he was on duty, too). I asked Jess if she finally wanted to get the Pink Pillbox in, which is just a bit North of base, and she said yes! It’s over an hour from where we live so it’s a “hike” to get there in the first place. We headed to bring Brian dinner and then to the pillboxes. This set of Pillboxes is known for its art (and one for being pink).

I really loved this hike and would frequent it more if it were closer. I wish we had gone on a sunnier day to really experience the beauty of the scenery, but the hike itself was a workout but not too much and the artwork was a lot of fun. Also, the parking was a huge plus… PLENTY of street parking.

There was this gorgeous tree along the way and there wasn’t a lot of scrambling or scary parts. Mostly gravel. I will say we caught a little rain at the tail end which started to make things slippery.

This next view is looking up toward Ka’ena point where we went whale watching and hiking.

Another one in the books for Jess and I! This nearly completes the list of highly popular hikes that everyone on Oahu talks about. I’m glad we finally got to it!

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Hawaii Loa Ridge Hike

Long time no post! I think almost a month. AppleCare had my macbook because a few of the keys weren’t working. They quoted me 5-10 days and it was four weeks… so here we are! I’m going to catch up in no particular order.

Today I hiked Hawaii Loa Ridge Hike, it was five miles and 1600ft elevation. 1000ft of the elevation was the last half mile or so. I don’t have any photos from the top, because, well, you can see we were socked in by clouds. (my friend Jess took a couple you’ll see at the end)

The start is inside a gated community with giant homes. You get a pass from a gate guard using a military ID or Hawaii license and head all the way to the end of the community, which is already at a good elevation. The beginning takes you through these beautifully wooded forest and was mostly dry dirt.

Eventually you get high enough into a clear you can look back toward Waikiki. I accidentally grabbed a shot of a rainbow! Only in HI. That’s diamondhead off in the distance.

More looking backwards, koko crater to the left.

More peak-a-boo views of Waikiki

We hit what felt like miles of stairs. These are kinda stairs; they’re also meant to prevent erosion.

I almost gave up a couple times, but it turns out we were REALLY close. I started to get really hot and not quite woozy- but I could tell I was low on energy. So I ate a bar and drank and let myself cool down before I carried forward. They went to the top without me, then one came back and got me once they realized how close we were.

Me, Jess W, Robbie, Saren, Jess J, and her husband

We hit the top, but, much to my disappointment, we didn’t get to see much. We made our way back down and I was a little more in the mood to take pictures.

The Ohia Lehua trees are blooming and there’s a Hawaiian legend that says if you pick one it’ll immediately start to rain. We didn’t attempt fate.

This hike definitely tested my limits mentally, technically, and physically. I’m glad I did it and am very proud of myself. I’m disappointed there was no view at the top, though I’m not sure I’d do this again.

Despite some fleeting clear moments, this is what was mostly at the top waiting for us. Hooray!

Honestly, clouds are nice because it makes for a kinda cool mist at the top. It also protects from beating sun and overheating. We got started a little after 7am and I am not sure I would’ve done as well any later. Also, what else are you going to do in Hawaii on a cloudy day? It basically eliminates any beach activities. Just a bummer to not see the sights.

So proud of myself for doing this when, a year ago, I was just getting hiking again.

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Submarine Birthday Ball 2022

Military Balls are a thing and the Submarine Birthday Ball is every year in April. Submarines were born on April 11th, 1900 (Yes, unbelievably they are that old!)

They have been on hold for the last couple years, but this year we pulled it off (despite a couple captains having COVID and it basically turning into a super spreader event).

The sub ball was Saturday so we booked a couple nights stay at the hotel and thankfully we did because check-in lines were INCREDIBLY long; we would’ve been very delayed had we checked in the day of. Friday night we barely made it to our dinner at Roy’s. I thought it was just ok for the cost.

The next day was pretty crappy weather. We only had the morning to hang out because I booked a hair appointment for an “Uptini” at DryBar in Honolulu. DryBar is a place where you can get a drink and your hair done (not cut). Well, apparently they are not known for their Uptinis and they re-did my hair not once but twice and it still did not look great. I walked into the hotel in tears over that and a lot of other drama happening that just all cumulated. All that to say Brian cheered me up and I fixed up a couple things of my hair and we went on with the night. This is the second time this has happened; Brian is not allowing me to go get my hair done anymore, ha.

On to happier things, we started with a pre-game party in our Captain’s suite which had a great balcony and view of Diamondhead and took some pictures along the way.

The men have the option of changing out their dress white sleeves and back with Hawaiian shirt print. I think theirs came out really classy. Pictured below are the Department Heads (Brian, Avery, Chip)

We probably should’ve taken a better picture of the whole officer crew in a wider space but oh well.

And the females

One of Brian’s right hand men

Every boat makes their own centerpiece. Ours was a water fountain and a vicious barbie. The boat “icon” is a sea faring version of Lady Liberty so I think that’s what they were trying for.

Someone else’s was a lego Submarine.

We start with food, then there is a ceremony part after. They ring a bell and have a slideshow for all the Submarines that have not returned. There’s a speech from someone. And the officers walk down the middle of the ballroom and introduce the captains. Here’s the recording of ours:

Then there was dancing and formal pictures and of course cake.

Overall I enjoyed myself. I’m glad for an excuse to dress up, but it was definitely a lot of money and a lot of work and honestly I didn’t have a ton of fun. But, I’m glad we went.

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